Welcome newcomers!

Mistress extends a warm welcome to all the new followers in Sydney, Australia and the world!

3/9/20263 min read

First things first! I"m extremely proud of this cold caning that I dished up this morning over a pair of black punishment shorts! Caning over underpants, shorts or knickers can be tricky as you can't measure the right zone easily so are left to guess. Lucky me, the spankee asked (no, begged!) to have a look once I was done and I was pleased to see 6 perfectly parallel stripes!

I’m having some decent success with loyalfans.com at the moment and I think it comes from restricting my content on X. Twitter/ X has been a huge support network for Australian Mistresses and Dommes and it has been a daily labour of love since I joined in 2013. I have enjoyed marketing myself and sharing some of my craft with the world, but the truth is that is doesn’t matter how many followers you have its still only a handful of people engaging, and those are mostly my slave and submissives that I see regularly anyway. In 2025, while I was away on tour in the Gold Coast, I woke up to post my usual availability and found my account had been suspended. I never got it back, and in fact had to start from scratch which is why my account x.com/mss_tahlia only has 2k followers. I now have what I call a ‘kamikaze’ account x.com/hello_tahlia where I post direct links and ‘illegal’ stuff, and my real account then shares this information. The usual censorship and restrictions now apply for loyalfans.com too. That is, I cannot advertise my real life / in person sessions otherwise you get flagged for illegal services and that means they get into trouble with the credit card companies. The absolute shit fight that is the USA currently is to blame for this, but thats for another post. All this chaos inspired me to spend most of my social-media time here, on my website. The crash in bitcoin helped me decide to stop paying for Scarlet Blue and escort sites like Real Babes and Escorts and Babes, which was never a good fit for us kinky folk anyway.

Because I have let my SEO go for so long I have just spent the weekend updating all my old blogs. Hopefully you will have found my easily by typing sydney spanking, sydney mistress, Sydney disciplinarian or fetish escort, spanking, etc into google. I tried these on the weekend and found that I am only on page 3 or 4, which is crazy seeing as I’ve socialised and promoted this since 2013, when Salon Kitty’s first closed! My previous websites were both hacked mulitple times and had become sluggish and annoying to access, therefore I became slack at updating. Its been quite the task and quite the investment moving off wordpress but so far it seems worth it.

I have some professional interests, such as British corporal punishment and spanking, strict discipline scenes which are most of my repeat business, and I have my personal interests which are the Realm of Men, forced bi, humiliation and cuckholding sessions which are gathering steam but still extremely rare to come to fruition. I have my first one in Sydney booked in for 2 weeks time with my cross-dresser lover Sammy making her debut as toy number 1 who will be engaging at my whim with toy number 2. I also have Master X on board now who is the Daddy Dom who is available for Topping other gents and cross dressers. We have been conspiring on some very sexy and taboo mum-and-dad type role plays and I am hoping that both will be available for my forced-bi and gay-play day on May 7 and 8.

As I am not advertising on Scarlet Blue any longer, please take note of my touring dates which I will copy and paste below. By clicking on the contact button on this website you will be taken to my live calendar which has all my australian touring dates for the next 3 months, as well as my sydney BDSM incall availability. If are still active on social media, or want to become a retweet slave please head to my twitter account @hello_tahlia and go for gold. All cross posting is much appreciated!

Mistress Tahlia is touring Perth March 24 - 27, Melbourne April 11 - 18 (this will be in a dungeon rental so heavier BDSM, S/M, fetish sessions are available), Newcastle April 24th - 25th.

For those new to my space I have a fully equipped dungeon, boudoir, traditional British school room and domestic space in Newtown, NSW. There is street parking available or it is a 5 minute walk to St Peters train station.