mistress
Tahlia
Tastes change over the years, but expertise never wavers.
With over 25 years experience as a Femdom/ Dominatrix I know what I want. My practice is entirely psychological preferring to control you through temptation and promise, rather than bondage and ropes. You present for my pleasure and your pleasure is granted only at your own expense. What does the pleasure of a Sadist look like, you might ask? I love CBT, tease and denial, smothering, facesitting and long drawn out edging sessions. I might use you as my sex toy, or abuse your body for my kicks instead. My dungeon is fully equipped with sling, standing cage and whipping bench. Pain sluts will not be disappointed in my selection of bondage and torture equipment. Your body is my toy and making you raw and weak with pleasure is my ultimate goal. Absolute desperation, begging and good manners let me know you are ripe for my nourishment. Dare you ask for more?
SYDNEY
DOMINATRIX+ DISCIPLINARIAN +
SESSION WRESTLER
EXPERT DISCIPLINARIAN
2020 STUFF
Appointment only
+61 0405 348 416
Private and secure Inner West domestic playspace, dojo and dungeon
$600/hour Dominatrix [all inclusive]
$400/ hr Disciplinarian [Strict CP]
$100/20 mins [Fantasy phone call]
“Working in a BDSM house has the benefit of becoming comfortable with all types of desires and fetishes that may never come across in real life. As a switch I encountered many very sadistic Masters, and through experiencing the rush of endorphins in torture and submission I was able to construct my practice as Dominant from this mutual perspective.”
Corporal punishment soon drew Tahlia into the British spanking scene, and in 2019 she won “The Night of the Cane.” A yearly corporal punishment competition in London that has been running for over 100 years. Proficient at all BDSM practices such as heavy rope bondage, psychological humiliation and domination, golden showers, ball busting and submission wrestling.
“In this world we are trapped by outdated moral codes that seek to oppress our natural desire to seek pleasure. Let me show you the release you deserve.”
EQUESTRIAN
FETISH
“Spare the rod, spoil the child.” Proverbs 13:24
Corporal punishment refers to escalating pain play focused on the bottom, and sometimes the back. Using leather, wood and cane implements either over the knee (OTK), bent over a punishment bench and restrained or dished out whilst touching the toes, the high protocol dynamic of British Corporal punishment scenes is both thrilling and addictive. Adult discipline and corporal punishment scenes have defined my practice, and I have established curriculum for my boys school Ridgebottom Boys Secondary (classic), and my new Military School (more sadistic). Whether you are curious about how spanking could be pleasurable; aroused at the power dynamic of Teacher/ student or Governess/ child or a well seasoned lifestyle player, everyone is welcome into my realm and I relish introducing newbies to the art form. Never fear, we are comrades until the ding of the bell; meaning I am absolutely lovely to deal with outside of scene and we will always enjoy a cup of tea and debrief afterwards.
Sexual gratification is not often part of these scenes as the endorphins released are said to be better than orgasm! But as I am naturally drawn to taking advantage of weak men at my mercy, there can be no promises.
ENDURE + SUBMIT + NOURISH
THE REALM OF MEN
I’m currently into dominating men and making them perform acts of pleasure to both entertain me, and to push their own limits. MY 'realm of men' consists of the fantasy that I keep men as toys in my dungeon, living side-by-side, awaiting my call to come to the surface and pleasure me. As a lifestyle Dominant I have engaged in this fantasy many times. What is so endearing about it is the genuine fear and struggle of those chosen to partake. One pleasuring me while I order 2 others to kiss each other for my titillation.
Forced-bi, prostate milking, and MMF bookings with multiple men as my subs have been taking up all the space in my mental library.
I have gentlemen available for cameo's in my scenes be they forced-bi, cuckolding, or crossdressing/gender play.
Seeing as most are too chicken to go through with these bookings I require a number of phone fantasy calls to determine suitability. If I like what I hear you might be invited to visit me personally. If not, you will just remain a terminal masturbator; a concept that also excites me.
SESSION WRESTLING
Session wrestling is a niche of BDSM that does not always involve Domination. Some subsets of session wrestling are submission wrestling (Tap out), lift and carry, muscle worship, WWE wrestling, erotic wrestling and extended head and body scissors, all culminating in one person tapping out.
My session wrestling career began at Salon Kitty’s around 2011 where, being the fittest person on roster at that time, I felt it was my duty to tackle the more strength based sessions. I quickly learned that being tall and lean would require more wrestling skills than I was naturally blessed with so I joined a local social freestyle wrestling club. On the last day of Salon Kitty’s in 2013 I met a client who was into WWE wrestling. He became my personal slave for 10 years, and in 2014 when I acquired my current play space I bought 50sqm of Dollar Pro wrestling mats and The Hurt Collective was born.
I am not a body builder, nor particularly muscly however I am an expert at session wrestling and am told I am very quick and hard to pin down! As my wrestling career began through Kink (and not BJJ as most people!) my sessions are erotic, fun and unpredictable. I enjoy incorporating abduction-style role plays and bondage wrestling into some of my more dramatic scenes.
CV
Dominatrix
The Labyrinth -Sydney - 1999
Enigma - Sydney - 2000-2001
Den of Iniquity NYC 2000
Salon Kittys - Sydney - 2001 - 2013
Temple 22 - Sydney 2014-2017
Independent - 2013- present
Cameo’s at Arena Blaze 2001 (NYC), The Dominion 2014 (LA), The Correction Centre (Melb).
Disciplinarian
Night of the Cane (London) participant 2018, 2019 (winner) and 2025 (3rd place).
I have worked with renowned experts-in-the-field Mistress Servalan (Sydney), Mistress Electra Amore (Melbourne), Strictly Miss Brown (London), Miss Iceni (London), Mistress Baton (SA) and London pro-spankee’s Matilda Caesar and Aila Gray.
2025 curator of the cumulative stroke challenge.
Wrestling
The Hurt Collective - Sydney 2013 - 2017
Monica’s - London 2017
The Submission Room - London 2025
Utopia Productions Cleveland 2014 (clips)
Strong Girls Rule - 2016 (clips)
Sisterhood of Sin - 2019 (clips)
TOURS
MISTRESS TAHLIA'S BLOG
MISTRESS GALLERY
FAQ'S
Contact me for questions or to book in Sydney or on tour. Always check spam folders for replies.
Tour bookings require $100/ hour deposit via beem or discreet bank transfer.
Email is best for session information so I have a written account to refer to on the day. If you would like to go into elaborate details please book a phone fantasy $100/ 20 minutes.
Deposits are transferrable only if Mistress cancels the session.
The D/s dynamic begins in the session not in the correspondence so let's chat as mutuals until our roles have been established.
Do not show up early for bookings. Your time begins when Mistress walks into the room.
Always arrive dressed discreetly.
Same day bookings in Sydney are rare but often available on tour.
Switch bookings are available and charged at full submissive rate of $800/ hour negotiated and at Mistress's discretion.
Enema is only mandatory for fisting sessions.
Yes, I do accept regular clients but you have to book and show up for the first one so you don't need to ask this question.
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If you need to phone me from a blocked number please email me first so we can arrange a time.
BDSM service providers are no longer welcome on most social media platforms so you will need to migrate to loyalfans. Terminology such as 'models required', 'I am travelling to...' and 'open to dates' all mean bookings and paid sessions.
Forced-bi and cuck session start at $1200/ hour and require 2 weeks notice. Don't volunteer to be filmed - I will propose this to existing clients who deserve it.
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