Being mature, advertising as mature and the BDSM v vanilla porn dichotomy.
Fansites like loyal fans and Many Vids are a necessary evil these days, and marketing yourself to the masses when you are a mature kink/ BDSM provider can be tricky.
CORPORAL PUNISHMENT
All fan sites such as Loyalfans.com and manyvids.com are very much marketed to the masses. My interests are very niche, some here may think them rather weird even! As a disciplinarian there is a need to appear very mature and I love recreating the role using vintage frocks and utilising the 'frumpyness' as a form of domination.
"You get what you're given."
I had a DM a while ago from someone stating they don't 'travel to the mature side of this site often" and it made me realise what an open platform this is. How many of you consume age appropriate vanilla porn? Or does anyone actually care about the age range of the actor or is it just the scene you are interested in?
Perhaps it comes down to the dynamic -- there is genuine D/s in even vanilla scenes with differing ages portrayed. I do like the concept of the 'L0lita' as a dominant young woman holding the desperation of some men in her palm.
And I am certainly guilty of enjoying the older man/ Daddy dynamic; often imagining myself to be a much younger participant being taken advantage of.
Where BDSM porn becomes more ethical than vanilla porn is in this acknowledgement of power exchange attributed to age. If a clip explicitly markets itself at being DDLG or Daddy Dom, or Strict Aunt, then the viewer is assured of the intention of the producer and the consent of the actors in it.
So, it feels like a bit of a waste of my limited hasttagging and categorical reach to advertise myself as mature which is definitely not a subcategory of any BDSM collectives that I know of.... but I might turn a few to the Parkside, no?