It seems that it pays to work through the festive season! I saw 4 new clients yesterday and have plenty more lined up this week. I really enjoy the introductory sessions, luring the fresh blood into a false sense of security and arousal, then throwing in little snippets of pain here and there to build an association with the pleasure.  The introductory session is all about trying everything at a light level, working out which pain arouses and which pain detracts. My favourite things to do with beginners is first of all bondage, tying them up to take control of their bodies, caressing their skin and delicate areas with my hands to indicate I am in control and have bad intentions, of the best kind! Seducing them by whispering in their ears, nibbling, scratching and teasing until I get a reaction. I lure them in then ever so slowly begin to inflict controlled types of pain, like CBT electrical torture, electrodes on the cock, cock bondage, cock and ball stretching using clamps, rope and the suspension. Teasing, threatening, rewarding, punishing…. equal amounts of pleasure and pain. Nipple play, squeezing, pinching, punishing… then licking. Light anal. Slowly sliding my gloved finger inside to massage the prostate, some react very strongly and some pull away. I enjoy long sessions of prostate teasing and anal play. The crowing glory is when a slave comes from me just massaging his prostate, milking him, not even touching his cock. This can be done! I have done it many many times. I have made clients “Squirt” out their cocks the same water that women squirt when gushing. This is highly rewarding for both parties. Corporal punishment (CP). Starting with an over the knee spanking, the connection of my skin with yours, my hand on your butt, tauntingly erotic, stroking you then spanking you then stroking you.  If you struggle with the pain control I offer you support and breathing techniques, molly coddle you through so you can experience what sits behind your pain barrier, there is an entire world you shut yourself off to just by not knowing how to exist in your pain and push through to the eden beyond.  The forced masturbation – making you cum for me as an act of servitude.  The beauty of this first session is that some things will hit the mark, others will completely fail but you will go away and decipher what you actually want to pursue on your submissive journey. You may have some marks to cherish, or sore nipples for a few days. This is just my way of making sure you don’t forget about me! If I could have you in a constant state of partial arousal from the physical and emotional exchange we’ve made then I’ve done my job.  I charge $275 for an hour of this type of domination.