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I’ve had my extended break which was harder than intended – its actually quite a celibate month for me whether I like it or not! My lovely slave has painted the ceiling under the mezzanine after 6 months, I am working on a new photoshoot this week, have a Female V Female wrestling party coming up on the 28th and have booked my first tour to Melbourne Feb 7 -10th.
I had taken a break from wrestling as you may remember as I struggle with the clientele. As wrestling sessions aren’t role defined I am often disrespected, spoken down to and smack talked by men keen to beat me in a wrestling session – from experience these guys never come in and its all just trolling and time wasting which I find infuriating! As wrestling is my passion both in and out of the dungeon I’m going to try and start 2017 with new vigour and hopefully a replenished patience.
I have a special guest doing a residency at The Hurt Collective – check out the website for more details on that. In her honour we have organised our first girl on girl wrestling competition for clients to spectate (and possibly wrestle one of us afterwards!). Date is February 28th at 7pm sharp, tickets are $200. The girls comp will run from 715 – 815 then there will be an hour available for short private wrestles with a lady of your choice at $100 tip.
At the end of last year I lost one of my 2 personal slaves – it was devastating for me that the relationship didn’t work on a sexual level. He had been a fantastic domestic slave for many years and I feel like we ruined it by adding money and trying to change the dynamic from a personal one to a business one. I now have space for one more “doing” slave as I call it. Someone competent and capable of solving problems for me, handy with tools and readily available with notice. There is no payment of any sort to be a personal domestic slave, that honour is payment enough.
Touring this year will be to Melbourne, Brisbane, Canberra, Perth, Adelaide and Hobart. For the smaller cities like Adelaide and Hobart 2 hour sessions minimum will be required. I am available to travel to any city with my flights paid for and a 2 hour booking.
I am going to University part time this year so international travel will be restricted to June/ July holidays and after October. Thank you to all who have encouraged me through reading my blog to study! I love reading and writing so hoping to enjoy University very much. If you’d like to contribute to my fees please let me know!
Last night I went to see King Roger at the Opera House – an opera sung in Polish with most sensational production. Check out Opera Australia link to see the set design – the most astounding Opera I have ever seen. Suitably seductive with naked male contemporary dancers and scintillating voices is it not to be missed. And I noticed a good friend of mine in the chorus!! An added bonus. Website here .
I”ll be doing longer tours this year – 3 nights minimum so I get to enjoy the city I am in, catch up with some friends and hopefully do some more overnight bookings. I had stopped offering them towards the end of the year as the hourly rate didn’t make up for the loss of sleep – even with slaves on the floor in bondage its not very restful. Those of you who know me know I do not take any risks ever – my sessions tend to me lighter and more erotic or CP based where everything escalates slowly to ensure limits can safely be pushed. The only breath play I do is facesitting/ smothering (its mutual that way!), I don’t leave anyone in bondage for long periods of time unattended (safe but not my thing) and I like to think I give good aftercare where its allowed for in the fee – an hour session doesn’t really allow for that which is an important part of the BDSM experience.
When I tour I offer dinner date sessions at $100/ hour, perfect if you’d like to get to know me and have an indepth discussion about your interests before proceeding to the real thing. I must add that everything discussed in these dates is confidential and absolute discretion must be used ie dont tell your friends what we discuss over dinner (its just happened so I’m putting that out there as a disclaimer now). I also love to visit art galleries, jazz clubs, the Opera, theatre and other cultural experiences. I am always up for trying new things – that’s how I got myself into this mess in the first place!
I’m off bushwalking today then going to the Cricket tomorrow (said I was into everything!) then holidaying in Canberra Monday/ Tuesday. I am back at work around the 30th of January. If you have had a problem with my email@example.com email please text me 0405348416 and let me know. firstname.lastname@example.org email will always work – thank you google!
My 24/7 slave Mr Leotard had been on wanking restrictions for the 2 months. He was required to confess to me each time he slipped up and in return received 10 cane strokes. Friday he was allowed to cum as much as possible without the need of confession. As time went on he got to around 40 strokes which was subtracted from only for good deeds like cleaning my dungeon, this left us with 38 unanswered strokes. I finally caught up with him for a session on Friday and this is how it ended. After wrestling him victoriously for an hour or so he was forced to submit and take a few (10 or so, I forgot to count) cold cane strokes. There is nothing that turns me on more than watching a grown man cry and grovel at my feet begging for me to stop. He bought this outfit on my request and I cannot wait to go to the next hellfire to make him wear it after taking his next round of strokes! He was then locked up all night to work in my dungeon and released in the morning.
Its school holidays and I usually take this time to travel or relax as business in Sydney is often very slow. This time I decided to hit Canberra and Brisbane for work and also booked a few nights in the blue mountains just to relax. After a weekend of hard training in Canberra I booked a hotel room with a big spa bath so I could relax my aching muscles. THis particular hotel also happened to have a gigantic living room as a bonus! I have stopped taking my wrestling mats on tour as they are so cumbersome, instead I get knee pads for everyone. I ended up doing a wrestling session too – wrestling and domination… my favourite! Turns out this school holidays is not going to be quiet at all. I’d been flat out in bookings all week before I decided last minute to fly to Brisbane on my day off. For those who have never had the pleasure, when I tour I require a 50% deposit by credit card or bank deposit before I book my trip. Most states, especially Perth have very expensive upfront costs which is why touring Mistresses often charge more in their hourly rate. Anyhow, I had enough upfront deposits to book a flight the day before and found an apartment to rent for just the one night. My first session was a heavy CBT, bondage and CP session with an old Salon Kittys regular. Next I had a submission wrestling session which took a bit of rearranging of the furniture in the very small apartment space. The client was lovely, very strong but no match for me. He was about 80kgs and I am 63kgs so it was almost a fair match. I whipped his arse (not literally!) and got him to submit to front and back head scissors, grapevine holds, body scissors, arm bar and choke. He was back the next morning at 830am for more! Next a 2 hour infantalism/ blackmail fantasy with a fabulous new client with a wonderful imagination – we will definitely be playing again soon. After a hefty nights rest and my 830 return wrestler done and dusted I was packing up to leave when the phone rang again. This time a 120kg submission wrestler keen to try and fit in a 30 minute roll. Just in time! He was bloody huge and I’d already done 2 sub wrestles in the last 12 hours but I managed to leave him at 2 submissions each. Such lovely clients and my favourite kinds of sessions. It seems lots of people still don’t have access to internet so aren’t able to look up touring session wrestlers – I may consider putting ads in the paper in Sydney now for the first time ever. School is back on Tuesday after the long weekend and I am looking forward to a bit of peace and quiet! Viva The Hurt Collective!
Just a very quick post to notify my ACT clients that I will be in Canberra Sunday 20th of September from 3pm – midday 21st. I will have my wrestling mats with me so happy to offer competitive and erotic wrestling sessions as well as all the other things I specialise in – I don’t need to go over them all for you seeing as you read my blog.
I have been working privately now for 2 years. The first year was quite rocky while I was getting my studio space set up. My first domestic slave I met though Salon Kittys own Head Mistress Amanda. I needed someone to help me with all the cleaning, building, moving, driving & decision making I had to do. This turned out to be a longer process than expected. I was so lucky that Mistress Amanda recommended her old domestic slave KC to me. He came with glowing references! I had never had a full time domestic slave before as this requires a premises which I had never had. Salon Kittys wasn’t my house and when I left at the end of the day I left my relationships with all my clients at its door. KC was a great help. We would meet for lunch and discuss my vision, my dream, my massive, gigantic mammoth task that I had chosen to undertake alone and KC would make sense of it all, pick all my ideas to bits and problem solve his heart out. At that stage I had a giant shed that I had bought and hoped to turn into something a tad more luxurious. The council approval documents took forever to go ahead and so in this time I bought some blue gymnastics mats off a friend and The Hurt Collective was born. I was all of a sudden the owner of a mixed wrestling club… not at all what I had planned for myself growing up but in true Aquarian fashion I ran with it. It was 6 months before the approval was given to build the mezzanine level in my giant shed. In this time I was able to do wrestling sessions there but all BDSM jobs had to be done as outcalls or at a neighbouring dungeon. KC would drive me around the city, wait for my booking to end, then drive me home. He never asked for anything more than just the pleasure to serve me and this I really liked. We had the privilege of time on our side, something you don’t get as a Pro Domme when clients are paying by the hour. My Uncle actually did all the building works at my studio and KC and him became fast friends. He knew that KC was my slave, the whole family knew. Now if that doesn’t reach out to the 24/7 slaves fancy then I don’t know what would. KC is used to train my apprentice Mistresses on. He has been bound, paddled, caned, tortured, cross dressed and penetrated all in the name of education. We often have lunch together and his companionship is much appreciated. He makes quite a sexy french maid too.
I have been out of the closet since 20 years old when I explained to my mother that I was starting an apprenticeship. You can be certain she was hoping I was going to say “hairdresser” however never flinched when I mentioned I was to be a Dominatrix. Actually it has dawned on me recently that as a teenager I used to be friends with Madame Lash’s son. I wanted badly to be a writer (poet to be more specific!) and I used to visit her home in Palm Beach where we would write poetry while she painted. Perhaps this early intervention had something to do with my openness for BDSM and alternative lifestyles? She drove around in a hearse with the number plate “Stiffy” and owned a church on Cleveland St Surry Hills (The Kirk) where she used to hold debaucherous gay & BDSM parties back in the day.
I digress. My second personal slave is a client with whom I met on the last day of Salon Kittys. Mr Leotard features heavily on my other website thehurtcollective.com.au and has become an invaluable possession to me. Ours is a much more physical relationship and we often go out together, spend nights together and he generally bears the role of being my on call bitch. I get him in on public humiliation sessions and forced Bi sessions and he always performs. I use him a lot to train my apprentice session wrestlers and he’s like a pig in shit being tossed around by gorgeous muscle goddesses as instructed by me. There are no complaints ever. He is into wrestling but accepts that he will be tortured, bound and used as a toilet under my command. All these things he does happily and with great enthusiasm. The only thing that disappoints me is that I don’t know how to use a cutthroat razor otherwise I would tie him up, gag him and make him watch as I shave his genitals with my deadly weapon. I need to up-skill obviously.
In saying all of this lately I have been privy to some extremely shifty men wanting to be house boys. I just got rid of my Sri Lankan shit eater who was so submissive I kept him on through his incompetence merely for the fact that he knew how to behave. Now he ate shit for me. That is a real submissive. I’ve had regulars I’ve invited to help train the apprentices trying to get a free session by suggesting slutty things they could do to them for their training. Mistake number 1. How is that submissive in any way? Are you not content to have been invited into our house in the first place? Please don’t bring your petty fantasies along when you have been invited as a guest. A true submissive lives for what his Mistress desires from him. I know because I have been submissive also in the true sense. Today I opened up my house to trial a new domestic slave who had convinced me he used to be a house slave at Salon Kittys and that I would recognise him when I saw him. To weed out the time wasters I always get first time domestic slaves to pay for a trial session so I can decide if they are wanted or not. He messaged me thirty minutes before the session was about to start to tell me he didn’t have the money and can he pay me next week. I have never met this person in my life, the are purporting to be a slave and asking me to do them a favour on the first meeting? I understand sometimes that the power exchange between a pro Domme and a paying submissive can be tricky to navigate however I have done it many times and I’m hoping this article will help other to understand that real 24/7 sexual slavery can be accomplished if you have the right attitude and some common decency.
True submissives need only apply.
Thats right, I had such a wonderful time Mistressing on the Gold Coast last time that I am returning for one night only. I will be bringing my latex collection and focussing on domination and latex worship sessions rather than wrestling this time. I will NOT be brining my mats. My baggage allowance will be taken up with naughtier things like rope for harnesses, dildos, butt plugs, vibrators and my extensive cock and ball torture (CBT) kit. And for the first time I will be travelling to Perth (East Perth to be specific) July 2 – 5th with wrestling mats this time. I will also have all my fetish latex and I’m keen to check out any Perth BDSM / fetish events that will be happening in the city at that time. Locals please advise me! I’ve had a lot of requests over the last 12 months from clients asking if I was travelling to Perth Western Australia for session wrestling or BDSM/ Domination sessions. I hope to make contact with all of you!
I will be doing 24 hours of power in Canberra from Friday 3rd to Saturday the 4th. Then flying to the Gold Coast 9th and 10th of April. I’m taking my wrestling mats for session wrestling sessions and light BDSM play. If you are interested in booking me (Mistress Tahlia) on any of these dates please email me, ring me and leave a deposit for security. I’m on the road!
Hello! I’ve been training hard, but not too hard and managed to win state champs last weekend in my weight division. I’ve been focusing on strength training and think my arms are looking the best ever. I have a new wonder woman outfit, I believe giving The Hurt Collective the worlds most expansive collection of wonder woman wrestling paraphernalia. I think at our next party we can have 6 wonder women?? Thanks to my collared and owned slave Mr Leotard for his contributions. I think the WWF community is loving you right now! We had another apprentice training day last week and Belle Star and Dita came through with flying colours. Also Becky lee has been very popular with the erotic wrestling set and we did a photoshoot this week – see results below! Unfortunately Bianca has left us so currently we only have myself and Becky doing submission wrestling.
I’m about to pack my very large bag for what will be my first business trip to Melbourne. I have a lovely apartment in Prahran large enough to cater for wrestling and intimate enough to cater for BDSM scenes. I am buying my own wrestling mats which I am going to store in Melbourne for future visits as well as knee and elbow pads for myself and my opponents. You can never be too safe! I have just had a cancellation for Saturday night so if you are in Melbourne this weekend and are looking for slut training, bondage, prostate milking, fetish, spanking or cock and ball torture (CBT) or messy play/ water sports please email me ASAP!
I have not sat down for a minute. The silly season is clearly coming and people are out in droves, enjoying the warmer weather and anticipating the holidays. I’ve had full “staff” on including lots of forced Bi sessions with my amazing gimp (nickname only!) performing like a porn star as per my request. I have been searching for years for the right slave to use in these situations and now that I have him I am making the most of him Last week he got 3 calls from me about sessions I wanted him for. There is nothing more humiliating for a straight man than to be forced to worship the body of another slave. Dita and I just sat back and enjoyed ourselves while the boys performed as ordered. HOT! I also spent the whole day monday out with my cross dressing slave, shopping, getting our nails done and lunching like ladies do! We finished the day with Mistress Belle Star and my gimp coming in again for another debaucherous gender bending party that started in a WWE round robin fight and ended in winner takes all! Lets just say Mistress Tahlia has never lost one of these matches.
On Saturday I got the opportunity to referee a WWE matchup with 2 young gentlemen who wanted to practice their holds. I was lucky enough to be shown some new ones – the camel clutch, reverse scorpion, boston crab and surfboard to name a few.
Yesterday I was lucky enough to be taken to see the film “My Mistress” by one of my longest serving slaves. After the week I had it was lovely to be spoiled! The film was always going to be a hard one to pull off with the main gist being a school boy with trouble at home comes across a Dominatrix, equally as troubled and a relationship ensues. A few scenes with sexy latex however it was a bit of a downer really. In terms of tackling the tricky themes I think they did a great job, but for this fetishist it was a little soft. I think I’ll wait for the adult version sequel! After the movie we went back to the studio and lived out our own scene in latex.
I’ve also made a 2 minute clip featuring Mr Leotard which I will post up once I’ve gotten his OK!
The Xmas date I screwed up as you’ll notice from my prior post – its now November 28th. 7pm start for all wanting to wrestle of wanting to watch the wrestling! Tickets are sold out but I will make exceptions for house regulars.
Dita and I did our first tag team wrestle on Tuesday and she did very well. I’ve been teaching her some holds – mainly scissors, grapevine, chicken wing and given her tips on how to survive! Sometimes half the fun is escaping the bottom holds! She did her first 1/2 hour mistress intro session by herself and the client was very happy. I think by January she will be proficient in bondage, tease, corporal punishment, role play, golden shower and light wrestling sessions. She’s got that gorgeous spark that makes me think she will really be a great Mistress. She is working this weekend for training sessions only ($100/ hour) book in with me if you are a house regular. Its so fantastic that the Sydney Dominatrix/ Mistress population is blossoming! Dita can be contacted at email@example.com.
I had to postpone my melbourne trip however will be there December 5 – 7th for wrestling and Domme sessions – I’m very much looking forward to meeting Mistress Alex and seeing my old friend Mistress Sophia. Come at me Melbourne! If it works out i’m hoping to hire a space to keep mats at so I can make more trips in the near future.