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ITs October – late October!! Its the silly season and my favourite time of year. This week (26th – 28th) I will be in Melbourne taking sessions – call me as I have some availability left. Monday 24th I am at Temple 22, Tuesday 25th I am working privately from my Newtown premises.
As many of you may know I am strapped for time, I have a lot of responsibilities that keep me in Sydney and I can only get away for short periods of time. Doing interstate travel is fun and I would tour all the time if I could. Currently I have a staple of clients in cities I’ve toured before including Melbourne, Brisbane and Perth and am looking to build up a clientele in cities such as Cairns, Hobart and perhaps I’ll even give Adelaide and Canberra a go again!
My recent tour was 4 days and the first leg in Melbourne was completely sold out. As I specialise in some interesting fetishes such as Brown shower (FTT of full toilet training), wrestling and corporal punishment switch sessions it seems everyone comes out of the woodwork when I’m in town! This is great because it means I am perfecting my craft with new devotees constantly and I have not done a bad session in years.
FTT, brown shower sessions are a once a day offering so with a 2 day tour i’m limited to the hours of the morning and only once a day. I have never failed at doing this naturally (without enema) and am very good at reading the client and either pushing for consumption or orgasm depending on the energy. I apologise as sometimes this means the session only lasts for half an hour. It’s the most intense session I offer and the ultimate in submission which is why I think it so popular. The term “Full Toilet” means you are used to clean me up afterwards with your tongue – an intimate and arousing reward for any slave at any time. In fact I think many slaves would rather just spend an hour training to be my toilet paper rather than eating or facing my shit. (I’m sure the majority would agree!)
Melbourne started with a bang with an erotic wrestling session, then a leather fetish with heavy humiliation. The client worshipped my leather riding boots and gloves while being trampled and verbally abused. Dinner that night was with an old regular client from Salon Kitties whom I met out, we enjoyed a meal, some role play and then some actual play back in my room. I enjoyed this “client” many times over during my trip and would love to publicly thank him for the good time.
A cultural observation that I might make given I have toured to these two cities now 4 -7 times each is that Melbourne sessions are far more devious, depraved and debauched. Perhaps the cold weather brings out the darker side of us all? The scenes are far more intense, strict and role plays are diabolical. I am developing a fetish for men in nice suits and love a good winter jacket and gloves. I did a lot of switch sessions in Melbourne and I love the depth of the depravity there. I hope this is taken as a compliment as I wish to return very soon.
“Beauty is mysterious as well as terrible. God and devil are fighting there, and the battlefield is the heart of man.” Fyodor Dostoyevsky
Brisbane is an absolute joy to tour for a different reason. I was able to meet a few new clients, received a GREAT present of some thigh restraints which will really come in handy! Did a very detailed 2 hour interrogation fantasy with ultimate surrender type wrestling fantasy to end. The bulk of my sessions are wrestling sessions and difficult ones at that! Touring wrestling is tricky, working from hotels with carpeted floors (and sometimes without!) after wrestling at The Hurt Collective… lots of carpet burns and furniture obstacles. I have a very sexy heavy CP session that I do in Brisbane. As a heavy submissive myself I am good at exploring the deeper regions of emotionally servitude. It’s so great to be able to chat with so many different people with intense physical exchange interests. This is the part I love about touring that I can’t offer at home. The opportunity to sit down afterwards and enjoy a cup of tea or glass of wine and deconstruct the scene, discuss where the fantasy has perhaps come from and how we ended up in the roles that we have.
“Woman’s power lies in man’s passion, and she knows how to use it, if man doesn’t understand himself. He has only one choice: to be the tyrant over or the slave of woman.”― Leopold von Sacher-Masoch
Literally! Just did an amazing equestrian session. I have a great collection of new leather gear which got an airing. Got creative and used my sling as a saddle. My rubber floor is great for slave who spend long hours on their knees serving me. I’ve got an exciting tour coming up to Darwin & Perth in March then I will be in Athens in late June. I’ve locked in my day at Temple 22 to be Thursdays starting next week the 28th of January from 10am. I’ve been so lucky to have taken most of January off.
I had a very busy December heading to Perth and Melbourne. I took my slave with me and we did some forced bi sessions which you all know is my favourite and I am so lucky to have a penis at my disposal. He really is my very own slave and even came up with his own slogan “This is the life I chose” which he says constantly to remind himself how lucky he is. We will be at hellfire tonight if anyone is out come and say hello.
This year I’m focussing less on wrestling and more on my BDSM Mistress stuff. If you want to see me as a submissive I am only doing this Thursdays at Temple 22.
Please check my Travel section to keep up to date with my tours.
Thank you to all my lovely clients and slave for a great year last year. I felt a bit conceited leaving a Xmas list however know many like to give presents and figured I would take the guess work out of it! I had a lovely holiday break and was spoiled with all the gifts. Best of luck for 2016 everyone.
I had just had a whirlwind trip to Perth. This time I put my phone number up on my ads and did a few interesting promos which got a lot of attention. The first was an adult baby promo which ended up being 14 hours work all extremely interesting, fun and challenging – lets just says I believe its my final frontier of learning as a Dominatrix! I also did a spanking promotion with me as spankee which eventuated in 3 wonderful sessions – 2 medium and one heavy. All super fun and very enjoyable. I believe my ‘Derrière of distinction’ tagline caught the attention of some fabulous Tops and my flight home I was constantly reminded every time I sat down. Spanking – the gift that keeps giving!
I did a beat down session with a very cute Scottish guy – punched, wrestled and disciplined him for an hour. He was so into it I gave him a number of cane strokes across the back. A truer pain slut there never was! Huge welts across his back and the only time he winced was when I was kicking him in the balls. He kept reeling back and my boot would land smack bang in his genitals – I was aiming for slightly behind. That punishment was deserved shall we say for moving! He stayed and we enjoyed a lovely cup of tea afterwards – one of the benefits of being on tour and on my own time.
Famous for my FTT sessions each day for the 3 days I was there I did one. Failing with the dental gag I mentioned in a previous post (it also held the tongue down as well as the mouth clamped open) the first one ate it out of a dogbowl while I thrust my boot into the back of his head so he didn’t have a choice, one ate it straight from the source and swallowed every bit. The last day was a water enema induced shit that got eaten off the floor like a filthy dog. He cleaned up all the mess with his tongue. Everyone one a winner!
I saw 2 regular clients and that was lovely – its nice to catch up afterwards with some tea and cake.
Melbourne December 21 – 23 is booking up quickly. I only have 1 FTT session left. Brisbane I will try and squeeze in a night after my Xmas holidays 3rd – 4th deposit depending.
I have been working privately now for 2 years. The first year was quite rocky while I was getting my studio space set up. My first domestic slave I met though Salon Kittys own Head Mistress Amanda. I needed someone to help me with all the cleaning, building, moving, driving & decision making I had to do. This turned out to be a longer process than expected. I was so lucky that Mistress Amanda recommended her old domestic slave KC to me. He came with glowing references! I had never had a full time domestic slave before as this requires a premises which I had never had. Salon Kittys wasn’t my house and when I left at the end of the day I left my relationships with all my clients at its door. KC was a great help. We would meet for lunch and discuss my vision, my dream, my massive, gigantic mammoth task that I had chosen to undertake alone and KC would make sense of it all, pick all my ideas to bits and problem solve his heart out. At that stage I had a giant shed that I had bought and hoped to turn into something a tad more luxurious. The council approval documents took forever to go ahead and so in this time I bought some blue gymnastics mats off a friend and The Hurt Collective was born. I was all of a sudden the owner of a mixed wrestling club… not at all what I had planned for myself growing up but in true Aquarian fashion I ran with it. It was 6 months before the approval was given to build the mezzanine level in my giant shed. In this time I was able to do wrestling sessions there but all BDSM jobs had to be done as outcalls or at a neighbouring dungeon. KC would drive me around the city, wait for my booking to end, then drive me home. He never asked for anything more than just the pleasure to serve me and this I really liked. We had the privilege of time on our side, something you don’t get as a Pro Domme when clients are paying by the hour. My Uncle actually did all the building works at my studio and KC and him became fast friends. He knew that KC was my slave, the whole family knew. Now if that doesn’t reach out to the 24/7 slaves fancy then I don’t know what would. KC is used to train my apprentice Mistresses on. He has been bound, paddled, caned, tortured, cross dressed and penetrated all in the name of education. We often have lunch together and his companionship is much appreciated. He makes quite a sexy french maid too.
I have been out of the closet since 20 years old when I explained to my mother that I was starting an apprenticeship. You can be certain she was hoping I was going to say “hairdresser” however never flinched when I mentioned I was to be a Dominatrix. Actually it has dawned on me recently that as a teenager I used to be friends with Madame Lash’s son. I wanted badly to be a writer (poet to be more specific!) and I used to visit her home in Palm Beach where we would write poetry while she painted. Perhaps this early intervention had something to do with my openness for BDSM and alternative lifestyles? She drove around in a hearse with the number plate “Stiffy” and owned a church on Cleveland St Surry Hills (The Kirk) where she used to hold debaucherous gay & BDSM parties back in the day.
I digress. My second personal slave is a client with whom I met on the last day of Salon Kittys. Mr Leotard features heavily on my other website thehurtcollective.com.au and has become an invaluable possession to me. Ours is a much more physical relationship and we often go out together, spend nights together and he generally bears the role of being my on call bitch. I get him in on public humiliation sessions and forced Bi sessions and he always performs. I use him a lot to train my apprentice session wrestlers and he’s like a pig in shit being tossed around by gorgeous muscle goddesses as instructed by me. There are no complaints ever. He is into wrestling but accepts that he will be tortured, bound and used as a toilet under my command. All these things he does happily and with great enthusiasm. The only thing that disappoints me is that I don’t know how to use a cutthroat razor otherwise I would tie him up, gag him and make him watch as I shave his genitals with my deadly weapon. I need to up-skill obviously.
In saying all of this lately I have been privy to some extremely shifty men wanting to be house boys. I just got rid of my Sri Lankan shit eater who was so submissive I kept him on through his incompetence merely for the fact that he knew how to behave. Now he ate shit for me. That is a real submissive. I’ve had regulars I’ve invited to help train the apprentices trying to get a free session by suggesting slutty things they could do to them for their training. Mistake number 1. How is that submissive in any way? Are you not content to have been invited into our house in the first place? Please don’t bring your petty fantasies along when you have been invited as a guest. A true submissive lives for what his Mistress desires from him. I know because I have been submissive also in the true sense. Today I opened up my house to trial a new domestic slave who had convinced me he used to be a house slave at Salon Kittys and that I would recognise him when I saw him. To weed out the time wasters I always get first time domestic slaves to pay for a trial session so I can decide if they are wanted or not. He messaged me thirty minutes before the session was about to start to tell me he didn’t have the money and can he pay me next week. I have never met this person in my life, the are purporting to be a slave and asking me to do them a favour on the first meeting? I understand sometimes that the power exchange between a pro Domme and a paying submissive can be tricky to navigate however I have done it many times and I’m hoping this article will help other to understand that real 24/7 sexual slavery can be accomplished if you have the right attitude and some common decency.
True submissives need only apply.
October 1st marks the starting date of our newest colleague apprentice Mistress Dita. I worked with Dita at Salon Kittys BDSM house in Sydney for a short period of time before it closed its doors on Cleveland st. Dita has some experience with BDSM and lots of experience with body work and erotic exchange. She will be undergoing training weekly (on some of our very luck house slaves!) to hone her skills with power exchange domination, CBT, teasing and denial and rope bondage as a starter. She is 24 years old with Marilyn Monroe looks and attitude. A curvaceous body to die for and wicked wicked mind. If you would like to incorporate some interaction with her in my upcoming sessions she will need a little notice and probably a month or so before she is able to do sessions alone. Its fantastic having a partner in crime to come into multiple golden shower, public humiliation and gang bang sessions. She is a switch so available for supervised submissive sessions for the time being and I’m hoping I can talk her into doing erotic wrestling also. She is mostly available weekends and nights.
Time is getting away from me, I’m so busy with my freestyle wrestling training 5 days a week and doing sessions around an already hectic schedule that have very little availability left before I go. I’ve been promoting my sub side a little on backpage and have a few spanking sessions lined up which you all know are my favourite! If you are interested in wrestling me while I’m “in form” then get in quick! Also I’ve been going to more and more “dinner meetings”, which is a paid ($100) catch up with me to see if there is chemistry, enjoy a drink together and talk about our interests. I’m on holidays from July 24 – August 18th. During this time Bianca and Belle Star will be conducting sessions at The Hurt Collective. My current days with availabilities are listed below.
Wednesday 9th July – 1-4pm free
Thursday 10th – 11 – 1pm free
Friday 11th – 5pm only
Tuesday 15th – 10am – 10pm (all day )
Wednesday 16th – 10am – 6pm
Friday 18th – 12 – 5pm
Monday 21st – 10am – 2pm
Tuesday 22nd – 10am – 10pm (all day )
Wednesday 23rd – 10am – 12pm only.
Moi! I absolutely adore being spanked which is probably not a well known fact. I’ve actually spent long periods of time being 24/7 submissive to a Master who LOVED corporal punishment however haven’t been active for the last year. Its wonderful when you are booked by a Master for a spanking session as I find its only arousing when its been requested of me, not when I’ve requested it of a playmate. The very small percentage of kinksters who have spanking/ corporal punishment as their dominant fantasy will understand what I mean. You can ask any playmate to punish you but if its not a mutual thing then the pain for devotion aspect just isn’t present. I love being trained to take what is expected of me, in the beginning I may not realise that I like it however the more I trust a play mate the more I want to please them and the more enjoyable the pain I’m subjected to is. When working at Salon Kittys I used to be spanked so often that I could take up to very heavy hand/ paddle/ cane. The more often I was spanked the more often I craved to be spanked and some clients may remember I used to challenge them to a spanking competition to see who gave in first, their hand or my bottom. I never lost a game. If I were to get specific I could say that my favourite Masters are the older English gentlemen, it just seems to be bred in them. I’ve had a flurry of them over the years and am always excited to meet a new one. At the height of my submissive run I fantasised about moving to London. I’ve heard the spanking scene is flourishing as it always had and the idea of making a living by being punished by Englishmen after Englishmen was making me weak at the knees. Anyway, today I had a fabulous spanking from one such gentlemen and remembered how much I need this in my life. The role play was school girl / Principal, a role I know and love! I left with a pink bottom and grateful reminder of something I once thought I could not live without. Now back to checking out one of my favourite websites, the pink report. Enjoy!
Found some recent bikini/ wrestling and female submissive pics in my folder that I thought you might enjoy. I will be hopefully doing some new shoots in the near future with all my new latex I just bought from Westward Bound. Actually if you are in Sydney Maxxx Black on King st Newtown has a fabulous range of well priced latex for men and women. Lots of basics as well as some fancy pieces, lots of sizes too! I just bought a new latex hood but could have spent all day in there! Anyway here’s the pics to save you from trawling my website