About Me- Mistress/ Dominatrix/ Top

Mistress Tahlia is a BDSM Mistress in Sydney. A Dominatrix and switch, Mistress Tahlia has many years’ experience behind her.

Always disinterested in vanilla or regular sex at age 19 I travelled to the USA where I was drawn to see a Dominatrix at a dungeon called The Den of Iniquity.

I was interested in the way that pain could translate to a sexual state and asked the very young German Mistress for corporal punishment including the cane. I would describe the experience as interesting albeit slightly awkward, certainly not arousing. I was yet to understand the emotional and psychological aspect of being under another persons control and wanting them to use me for their pleasure. I was however drawn to the world of pro Mistressing through this experience and after a few months back in Australia doing an apprenticeship at Enigma I found myself returning to NYC, this time to work at the same place I had originally been a client.

Whilst working there I made the acquaintance of a TS Mistress Catherine. We spent long hours sitting together in the girls room, waiting for clients to walk in. She was a fun, confident, strong and sadistic individual whom I was attracted to instantly.

My natural curiosity was ignited and I found myself fixated on her, feeling very small and almost trying to hide on the sofa so I wasn’t getting in her way. My inroad came in the form of a play party our dungeon held where clients came and all Mistresses/ subs were on duty. Hoping she would pick up on my vibe I went as a submissive and followed her around nervously all night hoping she would show some interest in me.

She caned me over her knee and I found myself so consumed with desire/ want/ need to have her use me again that the pain of the punishment became obsolete. Little was I to know that in the future CP was actually something I looked forward to. We had a few mind blowing play sessions in our short few weeks together before I headed home and continued my devotion to her from abroad. Loaded with all this new information and understanding of BDSM I tried my luck at Salon Kitty’s in October of 2000 and at 21 years of age was taken on as an apprentice, a career that turned out to last nearly 13 years.

Private work is lonely and hard at times however being able to work under my own rules completely is very liberating. What you miss are all the wonderful multiple Mistress sessions and the camaraderie of the strong women. I am working as Switch Hannah Elliott and extremely excited to be offering heavy sub sessions again.

I have a very deep understanding of the D/s relationship and am glad that I can share my experience as a heavy submissive with my current slaves.

When I write about me and my experiences as Mistress Tahlia, a BDSM Mistress and Dominatrix, I realise that the last 16 years have been a journey into understanding both sides of the BDSM experience. The first 10 years of my Pro Domme career were devoted to understanding how to give the client what he wants, the next 10 years are about focussing on what it is that I want thus ensuring every single session is mutually satisfying.

In 2018 I am studying at university and working very little in Sydney. I will still continue to tour around Australia regularly during my time off but that won’t be nearly as much as in 2016/ 2017. If you would like to contribute to my education please email me and I will send you my bank details.

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